Article Last Updated: Wednesday, April 02, 2003
3:31:59 AM PST
Alameda mother / grateful for MOM
FORMER PEACE Corps volunteer Lynne Fisher thought she closed the door on
her world travels with the corps many years ago.
Content to just settle down and raise a family, the Alamedan raised two sons
and a daughter as a single mom. But her youngest, Joseph, was destined to
follow in her footsteps.
"On his 18th birthday he went down and joined the Marines," she
said sadly. "But anyone who knows us should not be surprised. My father
was a co-pilot during the invasion of Normandy, my brother was in Vietnam
and at age 17, my grandfather drove a Harley delivering messages to the front
in WW I. One of Joe's ancestors fought in the Civil War and his uniform is
on display at the Smithsonian Institute."
"I saw my Marine in January, just before he went back to Camp Pendleton.
After our visit, I watched him drive away and then I started crying. After
all, I may never see him again," she said regretfully. "I realize
that it could happen. Something is going to happen to somebody's child. I
pray it's not mine.
"I grew up in the 'boondocks' of Southwestern Penn- sylvania and attended
the same high school with Joe Montana. I was so far out of the city that the
only time I saw my friends was at church or school. While I was at Pittsburgh's
Robert Morris University, Peace Corps recruiters came to my college. I filled
out an application and later received an invitation to join the Corps."
Fisher began her Peace Corps travels on the Leeward Islands in Barbados, and
later added countries like India, Guinea, Nairobi, and the Polytechnic Islamic
Institute in Mombasa to her travels. She taught business courses to well-to-do
locals in several countries.
"Once I left Mombasa, I went to India, Karachi, and Bombay and then I
went up to Delhi and Katmandu. I later went to Calcutta. I just liked to travel,"
she said. "When I was a little kid, I was always looking at maps. I always
had a globe and I was always telling everybody where I was going to go."
"Joseph has been in the Marines since 2000 and is on his second tour.
He's not allowed to talk about things but it's ironic that he's tracing some
of my steps when I was in that part of the world," she said.
"My son is willing to give his life for his country and that's part of
the cement that binds all our mothers together. Operation MOM has brought
some peace to the mothers," she said.
Fisher wonders why our local people are so divisive.
"I'd like to get more people involved supporting our children. It's distressing
that local people are so cavalier about the war," she said. "It
almost seems like they are trying to recreate the sixties and turn it in to
just another public relations effort."
Fisher says some are ignoring the hurts mothers feel over their sons and daughters.
"At the last Operation MOM meeting we started talking about our children
and the tears just flowed," Fisher said. "We were all crying. I'm
a strong person with a lot of support and it's great that we have a group
that understands. We have a common bond. It's getting worse and worse. We
hear about casualties and the shivers run up our backs."
Her resolve is fragile, and her stoicism lingers over the anxiety this war
could take her son away from her. "I don't watch too much television
because I'm afraid I'll see my son in a bad situation. But I'm grateful for
Operation MOM. At least we can share our emotions. Each of us knows how the
other feels."
In one of Joe's letters, he said there was so much sand you couldn't see the
sun sometimes, Fisher recalls. He said he didn't have anything to write about,
but he wanted me to know he'd be home safely this summer and not to worry.
He said to tell everybody he loved them and tell Marion, (their 88-year-old
neighbor), he said "hi."
Fisher's gaze lingers over a photo of her son, and a rush of pride comes over
her. "I'm proud of Joseph, and as a loyal American, I'm proud to allow
him to defend what we believe in. When my son comes home, I'm going to have
my friend create a big banner and my old Peace Corps friends will greet him
when he gets in."
Join Operation MOM in supporting our military sons and daughter. Log in on
www.operationmom.org or contact Dottie at (925) 706-1736.
Longtime Alameda resident Mark Raymond Chandler can be reached at 521-8302
or by e-mail to indonesia9@alamedanet.net .
